This blog has come about as I feel that StepMothers are usually cast as evil and generally bad exmples, poor role models and nowhere near anything like an extra parent, for their poor, mistreated stepchildren and only interested in themselves and their partners, the stepchildren being a mere inconvenience. I wanted to put across the point of view of a StepMother who is new to all this and trying her damndest to make it work out right for everyone! There will be other blogs, about me as a person and the other aspects of my life, but I thought I'd kick off with the definition of a StepMother.....
1. A bitch that gets a divorce from her husband and moves into your house
after your mother dies and screws your dad. she will do anything to buy
your love for about a year but then she becomes a total bitch.
2. The woman your father married after your evil, slutty mother threw him
out because he refused to become a woman. The stepmother puts up with
your spoiled ass and shitty treatment of both her and your father
because she actually loves your father, which neither you or your fat,
ugly, broke mother ever did. She's hot, educated, willing to work and
actually enjoys sex - all things your mother isn't/won't/doesn't.
Being a stepmother sucks because no matter how much the kids' mother has
emotionally abused them, they will always believe her when she tells
them you are horrible, and so they treat you like shit, even though you
support them financially and don't tell them what shitty little brats
they are.
3. The fattest uglyest stupidest bitch you will ever meet. this woman
treats her both blood realated and step children like shit. this woman
is unbearable yet her husband wont stand up for his kids and chooses his
ugly stupid wife over them.
These are all courtesy of Urban Dictionary http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=step+mother I chose this as I think it is quite a contemporary source of information and reflects today's internet generation.
1 and 3 are quite obviously the views of stepchildren and, quite possibly, their biological mum's too. Number 2 has to be from a stepmother who, in my opinion, is quite close to the edge.
However 1 and 3, if you ask amongst your friends, are sadly mostly the view that people have of stepmothers. Unfortunately 2 does nothing to dispell the myth either, us stepmothers can be our own worst enemy! Hopefully, through my blog, I will try and prove this view wrong although there are always bad examples in every walk of life and even I have bad days!
Until next time.....
Z x
